I have been supporting women since 2019.
I’m Toi and that’s me at 5 months postpartum with my first born. Having my own babies really drove home the fact that I am someone’s baby too. I was and am just as needy as they are. We may not have the same needs, but mine are just as critical as theirs. In fact, my needs being met directly impacts the way their needs are met. Especially in the early days. I may be someone’s mother now, but I am still Somebody’s Baby too.
Why am I doing this?
Well, it’s certainly not because I am or think I am a perfect mom. I just do my best and lean on my village. It’s not because I alone have all of the answers for absolutely everything. It’s not because my family has or will apply everything perfectly.
I’m doing this because your birth story doesn’t end when your little one joins us earthside; it carries on long into the golden years of your time here. I’m doing this because I have children. I’ve been there. I’ll probably be there again in the future. I know what it’s like. I’ve tasted postpartum darkness. I’ve bathed in fourth trimester glory. I’ve had help. I have learned so much. I know good people who know more than me. Most of all, I want to help. Most of my postpartum woes came from what I didn’t know. The list of things I didn’t know was mountainous.
My hope is that I can help change the birth & postpartum narratives from one of nightmarish memories no one wants to relive, to a well remembered time of restoration and love by offering products, wisdom and community carefully crafted for you. Because you are important. You are Somebody’s Baby!
“Now you’re somebody’s mother, but you’ve always been somebody’s baby”